Monday, March 5, 2012

Decideing what my baby should eat.

After the birth of my first baby who I will call number one. It was a no brainier for me what my baby would eat. Breast milk! Natures best food. It was easy for me as I had my husband and my sisters support. I also have a surrogate parents who breastfeed their babies. It was difficult at first as number one didn't latch very well. I used a nipple shield for about 2 weeks and then is was no longer needed. She was a champ after that. At 4 months she was very very hungry and I tried baby cereal, Organic. We did this once a day for about a couple of months before introducing any real foods. When she was about 6 months I started her on baby food which I made all her food at home with organic or at least pesticide free veggies. I did all of this with little or no research. It just seemed right. Why would I give her anything else? I don't eat crap why give that to her? There were other parents that I knew that that were doing things different and I couldn't understand it. A perfect example of this was a friend of mine was feeding her baby run of the mill store bought baby food. I asked her if she thought of making her own baby food. She said she didn't have time. Later I was thinking about how much time it actually took me. Let's see, I buy the fresh veggies when I'm already a the store. Once a week I would chop them in peaces throw them in a double boiler to steam. I did this while cooking dinner. Then I would puree and freeze them. The rest of the week all I have to do is take it out and stick it in the microwave for a few sec. Just enough to melt it and then feed to baby. It wasn't more than having to trek down to the store and buy food.

Once I was visiting my mother in law and I bought a few of the organic baby food thinking it was better than the regular. I tasted it, oooooooohhh it was really gross. My daughter wouldn't touch the stuff. she liked the real thing better. She was like that with breast milk vs. formula too. We thought about weening her to formula because my husband thought that it might be good to do six month breast feeding and the other six months formula feed. Well needless to say she was breast feed until she was 13 months.

Now that shes two she is still eating healthy. She eats whatever we eat. Also whenever we go out to eat we always buy her an adult meal as we see that all the kids choices are crap and not worth the money. For a few dollars more she can have a healthier choice for only a few dollars more.

Anyone that is thinking of not breast feeding because they are afraid that their breasts are going to be saggy please don't worry about it, your breasts are not going to be that bad after and after gravity takes it toll its likely that you're going to be that way anyway. I know because My other in law told me that's why shes didn't and now my husband has the suckest immune system ever!

There are many benefits to breast feeding and there is a lot of research that you can do but http://www.americanpregnancy.org says it all with this table from their website:
Breastfeeding vs. Bottle-feeding
  Breastfeeding Bottle-feeding
Nutrition
  Perfect balance of nutrients Not as efficiently utilized as breast milk
  Contains high levels of nutrients Nutritional content depends on proper preparation
  Easily digested and absorbed Some babies have difficulty tolerating certain nutrients
  Content varies according to milk production stage, which meets the changing nutritional requirements Pediatrician/care-giver determines amount
  Infant determines amount  
Costs
  Free Formula ranges from $54 to $198 per month depending on brand
  Nursing pads, nursing bras, etc. Bottles, nipples, etc.
  Breast pump (optional)  
Advantages
  Always the perfect temperature Anyone can feed the baby
  No preparation time  
  Milk is readily available at any time and any place  
Disadvantages
  Mother must be available for feeding or to provide pumped milk if she is absent Warming formula
  Mother must pump if feeding is missed Preparation time varies
  Early breastfeeding may be uncomfortable Baby may not tolerate formula well
  Certain medications can interrupt breastfeeding Always have to carry bottles, formula/mixing items with you

A little catch up, The Birth

Since having my first child in 2009 I have been troubled. First by the system. What system? The hospital that is. Stupid Medical system is how I see it! Let me start by trying to tell you about the birth of my first child. You would think that because my husband was an officer in the Military that we would've had it good, right, WRONG. During my pregnancy I was very sick I had Hyperemesis. (For those who dont know what this is: Hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) is a severe form of morning sickness, with "unrelenting, excessive pregnancy-related nausea and/or vomiting that prevents adequate intake of food and fluids."Hyperemesis is considered a rare complication of pregnancy but, because nausea and vomiting during pregnancy exist on a continuum, there is often not a good diagnosis between common morning sickness and hyperemesis. Estimates of the percentage of pregnant women afflicted range from 0.3% to 2.0%) Anyway, I was so sick that I could not hold any thing down not even water! So I went to the ER (Which is more like an Emerge Care in the Military). I had to this about 15 times before I felt better and was about 20 weeks pregnant. Each time they would give me drugs, lots and lots of drugs. Everything from pain killers to anti-nausea strong enough for cancer. Anyway I was real lucky that my 2 years old is fine. Anyway the point is I should've known that they were going to be drug pushers when it came birth time. I think at the time I was to sick to care. Which is sad. Anyway when its was time to give birth I woke up at 5 am with the contractions really heavy. I sat straight up in bed looked at my husband and said its time. We got up, got our things together and I ate breakfast. Then we went to the hospital to labor and delivery. When we got there one of the first things they asked me was if I was going to have an epidural. I said no as I was planning to have a natural birth. I was then told that I would have to go home or walk around the hospital until I was closer to having the baby. As I lived 30 mins away I didn't want to go home. So for the next nine and half hours I walked around the hospital, with back labor I might add. Finally when I could not take anymore gocking from strangers and I was so tired that we went back to labor and delivery and asked if I could have a room yet. They said if I would get an epidural I could be checked in. So I did. I was exhausted at this point and now wished I has not done it. What can you do? I cant change the past. Anyway after receiving the epi I had our first baby at 6:30pm, 4 hours after I was checked in. The point to all of this? Well its that from the very start I didn't have the support to do what is right. They just wanted me in and out. They didn't want me hanging around doing what is natural for my body. Instead they treated me as I was a product that was to be controlled, a consumer.

A little about me...

I am a stay at home mom approaching my 30's (and may I say a little too fast). I am married to a wonderful man and have two of the most beautiful girls, a 2 year old and a 5 month old. I have gone to college on and off for the last 10 years. I haven't actually graduated with any kind of degree yet. Not that I haven't tried, lol. Life just keeps on happening. This is OK as I am happy. Well, for the most part.We live in Colorado. It's so beautiful here and I love the weather. Also most people here are very nice. The reason that I wanted to start this blog is because of my kids.  I am doing my very best to make them happy and healthy. I have to be honest in that I am finding it harder than I expected. I want them to be the healthiest they can be. From the what they eat to the things they play with. Even their education. So far in my experience there has been little support. Some of these things include doing things greener. This is because with research I have found that going back to the basics is healthier. This lack of support for these things I suspect it is because of lack of education. So this is for people who are interested in doing things greener but are scared or don't know how to start. Also can be for those who think that I am stupid or gross. Maybe reading about my experiences, trails and knowledge or lack of will get an understanding of me and others who are like me. I really hope this will help!